Winning back an ex-girlfriend is never going to be easy and so before you even start trying, you should be certain that that is what you really want.
In many cases the need to have an old girlfriend back is just the missing of female company and so in these instances it is probably going to be easier to just find a new girlfriend rather than try and win the old one back.
If however, you decide that it is the old girlfriend you really want back, then you will have to try hard but first you must establish the reason for the break up in the first place as otherwise, the same thing may happen again and you will have wasted your efforts.
If you broke up with the girl for one reason or another, it may be easier to win her back as, as little as an apology and an admission that you made a mistake may be enough. If however it was she that broke up with you, things could be a little harder and in fact a lot harder.
Before you try and win her back though, you will have to try and determine what it was that made her leave in the first or else, having gone to the trouble of winning her back, she will just leave you again anyway. In winning her back it is not so much what you do as it is what you mustn’t do and perhaps the most important thing not to do is beg.
Most girls think that pets are cute when they beg but they are not men and most girls will lose any respect they may still have had for you if you beg.
Although it is true that begging has worked on certain occasions, the reason why the girls went back was through feelings of sympathy and nothing more meaning, as the sympathy fades, the relationship once gain comes to an early end.
In your endeavors to win back a girl, you should never ever threaten either her or yourself as that may only make her return through feelings of fear as to what may happen if she doesn’t.
Once again if she does return under such conditions, the romance will be short and probably not even sweet. The last thing that it is advisable to not do is bring up the past.
Although you may think that reminding her of some of your better times together may help you earn her back, research shows that more often than not, talk of the past also brings back to her memories of the bad times, reminding her of the reasons why she left you in the first place.
So you must not use these three tactics but think of others to use instead and remember, she is probably already aware of your of your best chat up lines and so those will have to change. Like I said, not an easy task and so be sure it is what you want before you even try.